I just tucked in some little grandson toes this morning at 4 AM so they would be warm again. Conner will wake up warm and cozy in a few hours. He’s an unexpected overnight guest which tells me we need to keep a pair of pajamas and a change of clothes or two here for him. That way we can decide at any time to keep him for some extra time if the timing works out. Now that he’s in school, that’s harder to arrange. Gwendolyn and her daddy are also here for a visit over the New Year's holiday. Our daughter Kristine came down from the mountain (she lives an hour away) last night with Conner and baby Katelyn. We celebrated our thirty sixth anniversary last night with our immediate core family, and it was perfect.
We had planned to head to Reno for a couple of nights to celebrate the occasion. Then those plans got changed when our son called to say he was coming up sooner than expected. Our reservations were canceled with a bit of disappointment as we had looked forward to seeing 'Peter Pan'. But compare that to a visit from our son and daughter and hands down ~ our family comes first,
of course.
Turns out it was also a good call to cancel, as I ended up with a virus on what would have been a travel day. It knocked me out for an entire day and through the night as well. Rick kept watch and brought a glass full of Seven-Up when ever needed. It’s a remedy from childhood that does work for upset systems… and we’ll leave that topic now.
Rick is on vacation this week. It’s a case of use it or loose it as he’s over the maximum hours saved for vacation time.
I’m so glad that he has time off this week. Everything is working out as it should.
So anyway ~ yesterday was our Anniversary and we got to thinking about our wedding day and everything that was ‘wrong’ with that day. Would we have chosen to change a thing if we could?
We had quite a bit of help getting our wedding put together on little if actually no budget for it.
Rick was stationed in Great Lakes (Illinois) for Navy schools right out of boot camp. I hadn’t seen him for six months. He was only going to be home for two weeks at Christmas time and then gone again for another two months before I would see him again. The goodbye at the airport
was tough, but it was just one of many
goodbye's during our Navy life.
Let’s see would we have changed…
Our minister who was someone we didn’t know from the funeral home chapel?
Or how about our piano player? He was a family members friend from Doc’s, an ‘upscale’ nightclub bar restaurant lounge. 'Moon River' was absolutely perfect.
That song has been in my heart forever.
The location for our wedding was the recreation hall of a mobile home park, where another friend of the family lived. It held our entire family who
were there to bless our new start.
I had to go to the Crystal Creek Prison/Work Program Camp to ask my future husband’s cousin to come and be our best man… um yeah. He was due to be released in time…
There were some other personal family issues involved that I won't discuss here.
Enough said eh?
We had a delayed start of the wedding, because there was a spot on the dress uniform cap that was bothersome. Then a soak in the sink, left another spot… a fresh rust stain. I had no clue at the time as to why he was late to the wedding,
but it caused some anxiety on my part
and frustration on his side.
There was another hold up during the wedding as someone needed to go purchase film or batteries for their camera.
We didn't have a professional photographer.
The wedding afternoon/evening continued with other ‘problems’. A trip through the car wash was a must. Our honeymoon suite at the local hotel for one night was a wonderful gift. Unfortunately it was a room that left a lot to be desired… It was at this point we thought we should have taken matters into our own hands and skipped town. We should have just headed over to the coast as was his/our plan. Um yeah. Instead we wasted some time in the early evening and saw ‘Smile’ at the local theater. I fell asleep during the movie. Ha! It was such a rotten movie. We’ll never forget it. Our options for celebrating the evening were limited at the time because I wasn’t yet twenty one.
The next day we headed over to Eureka on the coast. We drove through the mountain passes with the top down and the snow flying. It was wonderful. We were bundled up, and yes
it was so very cold
in spite of my denials to the contrary.
We finally did stop to put the top back on
with cold frozen fingers.
On the coast, away from family, we had the best time; sea food ~ a rare treat back then, beach walks, Redwood tours, and peaceful bliss. That is until the car key broke off inside the door lock. We got chewed out for being gone too long (two nights) with the borrowed little red Fiat Spider convertible car even though I left a perfectly acceptable ‘get you where you need to go’ ugly car in exchange. Thanks Bro in love,
Family Members! ~~~ Still love them to pieces. The car actually was their Mom’s car which was on loan to brother in law who then totaled the car two months later. Aye aye aye Karma. Back then he had a habit of doing that. Now brother in law drives a black slick corvette that he absolutely loves and keeps getting speeding tickets with. He’s sixty something.
Anyway, we thought it over and there isn’t much that we would change if we could do so. The memories of that day bring smiles and through all the ups and downs, we’re still together. We’re here with love and hope for our kids and their kids, and so it goes.


